没有人陪,自己去度假,应该感到沮丧吗?(一)
2021-12-03 qpedu 6609
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I don't have any close friends, am anintroverted person but want to go on vacation this summer. I've saved up somemoney and decided to either visit a new country/city or just chill in awellness hotel somewhere.

我没有任何好朋友,我是个内向的人但是这个夏天我想去度假。我已经存了一些钱,并且决定要么去游览一个别的国家或城市,或是待在某地的一个康养酒店里

When I casually told this my really extrovertedsister (who is 3 years older than me) she couldn't believe I'm doing such"old people" stuff as going to a wellness hotel alone. I didn'treally know what to say and now I'm very insecure about my plans :(

当我无意间和我性格外向的姐姐(她比我大三岁)说到我的计划时,她简直不敢相信 我要去做独自住康养酒店这样的“老年”活动。我不知道要说什么而且现在我对自己的计划很没信心

Anybody can cheer me up?

有人能鼓励我一下吗?

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ImitationButter
Nah. Going on vacation alone is perfectlyfine. I’d probably go alone even if I had friends


不。独自去度假特别好。即便我有朋友,我也可能会自己一个人去

Martblni
What would you do on vacations? I thoughtabout going like that but really it will be too boring and lonely for me

在度假期间你要做什么呢?我想过自己去但是对我来说这样将会很无聊且孤独

apache0796
nah I've been going away on my own foryears. My first trip was at 19 when I went to New York from the UK and I neverlooked back. I've been all over Europe, North America, Australia, China andIndia on my own. I have been places with other people too but if I want to gosomewhere and someone else doesn't due to money or whatever reason I don't letit stop me so just go for it. I could talk about what I've seen and done fordays but it's all been fulfilling and worth it.

不会 我已经有好多年自己去度假了。我第一次旅行是在19岁,那次我从英国去纽约,我从未往后看。我自己一个人走遍了欧洲、北美、澳洲、中国还有印度。我也和其他人一起去过一些地方,但是如果我想去某地,但是其他人因为钱或者任何原因没准备好,我不会让旅程停下,我会直接去。我可以用数天时间谈我的见闻和经历,这一切都是值得的。

chayashida
It's just tastes. Your sister wants to gowith friends (or make new ones) and be excited meeting new people. For otherpeople, that can be really tiring.

这只是个人喜好罢了。你的姐姐想要和朋友一道去(或是交新朋友),并且乐于遇见陌生人。但对其他人来说,这可能真的很累人

ru5ty5hack13f0rd
It's absolutely tastes. I'm an introvertwho needs a little bit of social time maybe once a month and I'm good. Avacation alone fits my taste for sure. I've been on plenty of vacations thatturned into nightmares cause other people dropped the ball or couldn't agree onplans. I say go have a blast doing exactly what you want to do and nothingelse.

这完全是喜好问题。我是个内向的人,只需要少量的社交时间,大概一个月一次,我没问题。一次独自旅行肯定符合我的口味。我经历过很多最后变成噩梦的旅行因为掉链子或者不能就出行计划达成一致。我认为你要玩个开心,做哪些你想做的事,此外就没别的了

samajakerino
Not sad at all! As long as it doesn't makeyou feel uneasy, travelling alone is a very fun experience!

一点儿也不用伤心!只要这么做不会让你感觉不舒服,那么独自旅行就是很有趣的经历!

bakofud
I had the exact same thoughts. Safety wouldbe my only concern depending on where you are traveling to.

我的观点和你完全一样。安全可能是我唯一的担心,这取决于你要去哪儿旅行

loercase
I agree, I travelled (mostly) by myself for4 or 5 years. Awesome time, made so many friends, lots to see and do. Downside:there were times of loneliness, and a lot of attractions are dull to see withnobody to share them with, but it's easy to make friends if you put yourselfout there. Stay at hostels and be open to going out and doing things withpeople you only just met.

我同意,有4到5年时间我(基本上)都是自己出去旅行。超棒的时光,交了如此多的朋友,有很多要去看和做的事情。不好的一面:会有孤独的时候,很多景点景点看起来很无趣因为身边没有人分享,但是如果你把自己放到那里,很容易交到朋友。住在旅馆,对和刚认识的人一道出去和做一些事情保持开放态度

IAmA_Risky_Click_AMA
I think it's weird that some people areincapable of traveling alone. Few things are more liberating than exploringsomewhere new on your own time and terms.

有些人没有独自出行的能力,我认为这很怪。很少有事情能比自己花时间探索一些新地方更让人自在的了

AmericanKamikaze
Huh? It’s not sad. Vacationing alone isjust called traveling. Travel as much as you can before you get stuck in a jobor bills.

哈?这并不叫人难过 。一个人去度假才叫旅行。在你忙于工作和付账单之前,尽你所能多去旅行吧。

timtamtammy
The fact that his sister thinks there is“old people stuff” when it comes to travel and exploring tells me she’sprobably still in that awful phase where you give a shit what people think ofyou instead of just doing what makes you happy.

他的姐姐认为(独自)旅行探索是“老人家做的事”,这提示我她可能还处在一个可怕的阶段,即在乎人们怎么看待你而不是直接做那些让你高兴的事
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YNinja58
The truth is, doing "old peoplestuff" is just doing stuff without caring what people will think. Enjoyingwhat you enjoy, everyone else be damned.

事实是,做“老人家做的事”就是在做一些不在乎别人看法的事情。享受你在经历的,其他任何人都去屎吧

tarek122
Thank's everyone for the kind words :)

谢谢每一位真诚发言的朋友
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CharDMacDennis2
Enjoy your trip(s)! Check out Lisbon. It'sa great destination, and I know a couple folks who went there on solo trips.

享受你的旅程吧!看看里斯本。那是个很棒的目的地,而且我知道有很多人都一个人去那里旅行
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Riovem
I'm as extroverted as they come andabsolutely love a trip by myself. Your sister is an arse.

我是个典型的外向的人,而且非常喜欢独自去旅行。你的姐姐是个傻瓜
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JessieN
Have fun!

玩得开心点!

anish714
I've never been on vacation alone. I'm apretty introverted person. I wish I had though. No better way to meet newinteresting people than going alone. Especially if you go to a differentcountry.

我从来没有一个人去度过假。我是个非常内向的人。不过我希望我有独自出游的经历。作为一种结交陌生人的方式,独自出行比其他方式都好。特别是当你去到一个陌生的国家时。

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